Looking to turn up the heat in the bedroom?

Want to be remembered as being an Adonis in bed?

Having sex with a woman should be a mutually beneficial experience. Too often the woman walks away without orgasming and without having a great time.

As a man you must take your time and do your part to make sure your woman enjoys herself.

This article will give you 9 tips to improve sexy time and better please your woman in bed.

1) Make a Day of It

By this we don’t mean have sex all day long, rather be sexy all day long.

Get your female partner geared up for sex by being extra physical and loving throughout the day.

These moves don’t need to be over the top. Simply rest your hand on your woman’s’ lower back and guide her while she walks or grab her hand. Brush her hair behind her ear.

Frequent physical contact will ignite her senses and make her want you to touch her even more.

2) Ask Her What Her Fantasies Are

For some reason talking about sex between men and women has become more taboo than actually performing the sex itself.

There’s no reason why you and your partner can’t have an open and honest conversation about what you like in the bedroom.

Ask her if there’s anything she wants to try with you or any position she’s always wanted to do. This is the moment you need to really listen and internalize everything she’s saying. Save these nuggets of knowledge for when you go to bed together.

She will be extra appreciative that you took the time to take her needs into consideration. She will probably even reward you for it.

3) Go Down on Her First

When it comes to oral sex, women are often treated second or not at all.

Switch things up and wow your woman by going down on her first. Be sure to start slowly with gentle licking. Remember her clitoris is incredibly sensitive and if you go down on her too vigorously it could become painful.

When you’re performing oral sex on your woman get your fingers involved. You know how good it feels when she gives you head and uses her hand on your shaft at the same time? Do the same for her by sucking her clitoris while fingering her vagina.

4) Kiss Her Neck

If you want her to remember you long after you leave her side pay close attention to her neck.

Kissing a woman’s neck is a very intimate move as she’s exposing an extremely vulnerable part of herself.

Neck kisses feel amazing for your woman and should occur through the entirety of your sexy time with her.

5) Talk to Her

Women can get just as nervous as men during sex. They think they aren’t performing well or that they don’t look good in whatever position they’re in.

It’s your job to silence the anxiety in her head. Give her sexy affirmations by telling her how beautiful she is. If you love her long hair, tell her. If you think her hips are amazing, tell her.

Tell her how good it feels to be inside of her and you’ll make her confidence skyrocket. Women like to know that they’re attractive and that they’re pleasing you.

Once you start reassuring her of how awesome she is she will really come alive sexually.

6) Find Her G-Spot

The G-Spot is a hypersensitive area on the front wall of a woman’s vagina. Find this spot and you’ll please her greatly.

Stimulating her g-spot can lead her to incredible vaginal orgasms and you will feel amazing as she quivers around you.

Doggy style is one of the best positions for hitting her g-spot. Since doggy style can lack the connection or face to face sex it’s important that your woman is comfortable. Ask her if she’s in a good spot before you start penetrating her from behind.

7) Give Her a Massage

Massages are incredibly erotic and underrated when it comes to sexual activities.

Massaging your woman before sex gives several benefits. The first is that any muscles she has that were tight will be loosened up and she will feel amazing. The second is that the massage will make her feel valued and in the mood to express gratitude.

Grab your favorite massage oil and take your time exploring your woman’s body through massage. Sex doesn’t have to just be penetration, all the moments leading up to it can be just as enjoyable.

8) Let Her Take Control

One way to ensure your woman has a great sexy time with you is to let her get on top.

When a woman is on top she can control the pace and angle of sex. She can speed things up when she feels like it and slow down when she needs a break.

Being on top is empowering for woman and gives them a better chance of reaching orgasm.

9) Pay Attention to Her After

Just because the sex is done doesn’t mean you are. If you want a woman to remember you it’s important to maintain physical contact with her after sex.

How intimate the contact is will depend on your relationship with the woman. If you’re dating or you know each other well, pull her into you and have a cuddle session. If you don’t know her as well simply rest your hand on her leg or hold her hand.

She will like the extended contact as you both come down from orgasm. This is a great time to tell her she did amazing and that she’s beautiful. Sincere flattery after sexy time will get you everywhere.

Enjoy Your Sexy Time and Respect Your Woman

Having good sex is as simple as giving as much as you receive.

If you take the time to listen to what your woman wants and respond accordingly, you will definitely blow her mind.

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And remember, sex should always be respectful and consensual.